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Jane and Don Moore posted a condolence
Dear Lorna and family,
We are sending our love to all of you at this time of great loss on the death of Bruce. He was so 'present' to his family and many, many other people throughout his life. Words are inadquate at this time, just know we are sending great love to all of you.
Deepest sympathy from Jane and Don Moore
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Diane Davie posted a condolence
I only met Bruce a few times, but he was a good, long time friends of Greg's. I know Greg is very saddened by such a good guy leaving too early. I remember chatting with Bruce and Lorna at the combined reunion at Sacred Heart. Bruce had a great warmth and had been helpful with our son's future plans to be a PT. May he rest with the angels and his memories bring peace to his friends and family.
D. Davie
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Terry and Dave Dundon posted a condolence
There is not enough time or space to even begin to share all of my great memories of Bruce...I was his prom date in 1977 and he was the best "guy friend" I ever had. He made us laugh like no one else...great impressions, funny stories, and always a happy, positive presence. One of my fondest memories of Bruce was on the day of his wedding to Lorna...he was happier than I had ever seen him. He loved his wife and children completely and unconditionally. Although his grandchildren will grow up without his physical presence, they will know their grandfather...we will carry the torch and make sure they hear all the stories (OK, maybe not ALL the stories) about the grand person he truly was. All the unselfish things he did for others; the sacrifices he made to do the right thing; the laughter he created in all of us. Rest in peace my friend...we love you and will never let them forget who you were. We love you Lorna, Kristin and Brett...I hope your memories will continue to comfort you as we share them with you in the coming days...Love y'all...T
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Gerald Hughes posted a condolence
To Lorna and Children,
Im so sorry in the loss of Bruce. May God bless you and be with you all as he welcomes Bruce home...
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Bob Van Voorhis posted a condolence
A genuine asset to his community. His legacy will continue to serve his neighbors.
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Mary D'Imperio posted a condolence
The sub shop,The late nites on mas porch,the family weddings,anniversaries,birthdays!!! MY DAD!!!!!!!!! U rocked Bruce!!! U were my 4th brother!!U will truly b missed by my family!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Love u!!! Give "Big D" a hug for me n all of us!!! He has a great friend now!!!.U 2 behave!!
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Greg Davie posted a condolence
How does one begin to convey the jumbled thoughts through weepy eyes and unreliable fingers on the keyboard? As Bruce might suggest - hey just go for it. This lifelong friend of mine is going to be missed. It does not matter that we were not constant companions past high school. What mattered was we were close friends whenever we DID see each other. Laughing was a given. Memories flowed freely. Bruce did so much for so many and, as I mentioned in my FB comment, made it always look so easy. I sincerely hope that we all remember Bruce for his wit, wisdom and warmth. And since we're on the letter 'w', how in the world did Bruce keep his middle name a secret from me? My dad called him "Bruiser", I sometimes called him "Hoyt". But in the final description, I'll always call him "friend". Lorna and family, my love and sympathies to you all. I will never meet another man as special as Bruce, guaranteed.
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Kathy and Ed Standish posted a condolence
Know that our thoughts and prayers are with you Lorna and all your family. Many great times had with you at the Fly Creek church. Bruce was the best.
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Sue Winnie posted a condolence
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. Bruce was the best. He was there for all of us at difficult times.
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Christine Krueger (Biegel) posted a condolence
I interned under Bruce at Bassett and after my college graduation was offered a temp position within his department. I learned a lot from him and laughed a lot with him. He made work fun. He was an excellent reference provider for me and continued to check in on me with each job I've held. Bruce, hands down, was the best boss I've ever worked for and is someone I aspire to be like. I have nothing but fond memories of him: flowers for the office ladies because it was Tuesday, name that song, dumb joke of the day, triple-sow-cow plaque in the stairwell for his ever so graceful fall, organized chaos in his office, the many SHRM white papers he shared, and his shoeless office attire. He was dubbed the Director of Fun for a reason. My condolences go to his family and his colleagues at Bassett. He will be truly missed.
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Fran and Rich Martin posted a condolence
Dear Lorna and family,
Bruce was truly a gift from above. He was such comfort to my dad in his final days and I know they are reminicing at this moment. He was one of the good guys. We will keep you all in our prayers.
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Bob and Deb France posted a condolence
Lorna,Kristen,Brett and family - Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time. We have many fond memories of our times together especially the humorous thoughts that Bruce brought to both the carpool and various UHC functions. Our love to you all - Bob and Deb
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Nancy Palmer Turley posted a condolence
Lorna, I just wanted you to know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I just keep thinking of you and hope that you will feel God's presence and the love of others as they hold you up in prayer.
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corinne fish posted a condolence
MAY HE REST IN PEACE. He was a great person. Will be miss by all that know him and loved him.
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Dan Quinn posted a condolence
Bruce, you left a mark on all of us. Your loving and caring ways will continue to shine on through your beautiful family and the countless people whose lives you have touched- even those who you may have never met. Your dash was all too short, but your spirit, your smile, and your love will always be with us. See you on the other side.
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Jakkie Bickos posted a condolence
Linda and I wish to extend our condolences and prayers to you and your family, Lorna. Bruce was a good man and will be missed. -Jakkie & Linda Bickos
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Carol Hall posted a condolence
Lorna, Kristen, Brett & Family- My love & prayers are offered to you at this time. How quickly a lifetime passes. It seems like only a short while ago when Bruce and I were recruiting RN's at health fairs. Bruce was a wonderful family man who lived from his heart. He touched so many lives and will be deeply missed. Surely, his great works will continue from the "other side." And surely he is surrounded by his angels singing praises of, "Job well done!" Blessed be, Bruce . . .
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Brenda Gerpw posted a condolence
Lots of memories of Bruce. He was a nice guy. Didn't ask for attention, was always there. Sat behind me in classes, enjoyed his friendship.
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Doreen & Bob Frank posted a condolence
We too were the beneficiaries of Bruce's wit and enjoyed so many laughs with him and Lorna. There was no one else who could mimic the pre-batting routine of Rod Carew or Carl Yastremski as he did outside a sports bar in DC at Tracey's wedding. We shall treasure all of the time we had with Bruce. May God bless him in heaven. We sure feel lucky to have had him as our friend.
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Jeff Van Winkler posted a condolence
No words can describe how powerful of a man he was in making people just laugh and enjoy life, he will be extremely missed. May you walk proud in the gates of heaven. God Bless :)
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Carolee Vink posted a condolence
My condolences go out to you. I am a better person for having known Bruce. Bruce hired me and stood by me throughout my career. He was always willing to help in anyway and always with a smile in his voice and a joke to make even a serious subject more pleasant. He will be greatly missed.
Heaven received a great new angel.
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Mario R. Arevalo posted a condolence
My condolence to the entire Wilhelm family. Bruce was a classmate of mine at Russell Sage College in the early 90's. He was a true gentleman and a pleasure to be with. I am so sorry for this loss.
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Mary Jo Cronin & Jim Doherty posted a condolence
Dear Lorna, Brett and Kristen- Even though we did not know Bruce well, we want you to know that you have our heartfelt sympathy for your loss. We know what a very good man he was, and his presence, joy and love will always be felt and carried on through each of you.
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Carol Bishop posted a condolence
I serve on the Sidney Federal Credit Union board with Bruce. We will all miss him terribly. My thoughts are with all of you.
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Tom Smith posted a condolence
I worked with Bruce for 12 years, as I am one of the benefit representatives for the Bassett employees. Bruce is one of the most honest, sincere, straight forward indivduals I will ever meet. He was always looking out for those he was responsible. When he extended his hand for a shake that was better than any written contract. He is one that was not afraid to stand behind his decisions. I will miss our correspondence, his jokes, and good will.
Tom
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Jeff Allen posted a condolence
I played basketball with and against Bruce for many years. He was a fierce competitor but always a gentleman. His 3 point shooting beat my team a number of times, and we usually ended up guarding each other. He will be missed by everyone he came into contact with. He was a man of great character, and if you were fotunate enough to be called his friend, it was a lifelong honor. He and the family will be in our thoughts and prayers.
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Jim & Linda Dewey posted a condolence
Both my husband and I are Deeply saddened to hear of Bruce's passing. We both have many fond memories that we will both cherish forever!!
I was fortunate to meet Bruce during my new employee orientation with Bassett, he was ALWAYS smiling and had such a warm, positive presence. And my husband had the pleasure of helping build his home in Cooperstown. Bruce will never be forgotten-he will live within all of the hearts of the people who were fortunate to have known him. May his memory comfort you all during this very difficult time.....All our Love!!! xoxoxo!
Sincerely,
Jim & Linda Dewey
Sidney NY
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Celie Smith posted a condolence
Lorna, Brett and family
My deepest sympathies and continued prayers and positive wishes are sent to you. Celie
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Celie Smith posted a condolence
Lorna, Brett and family
My deepest sympathies and continued prayers and positive wishes are sent to you. Celie
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Tom Wright posted a condolence
The Otschodela Council Boy Scouts send our condolences to the familiy. Bruce lived the Scout Oath and Law in is daily life. He was a leader and lived up to the expectations of and Eagle Scout. We enjoyed him when he was on our Executive Board. He will be missed in our community.
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Donald Alger posted a condolence
So sorry for your loss. Lorna I know how you feel as I lost my wife 11 years ago. My wife had told me that god will only give you what you can handle. I still remind myself of that all the time. Little by little things do get better.Again so sorry. Donnie
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Doreen Del Rosario posted a condolence
My condolences to Lorna and the entire Wilhelm family. Bruce was one of the good guys -- warm, honest and caring. He was a strong leader admired by all who had the privilege to know him. During his time at Bassett, Bruce affected change that positively impacted the lives of many. He was passionate in his beliefs, gracious in the face of discord and determined to make things right. Thank you for sharing him. I will always remember him -- with a smile on my face.
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